Time a healer?

They say,"time is the healer, time is powerful, time solves it all!!!" I say"Yes I know it all..I have seen time take a stride and make everything better AS IF IT WERE to have a magic wand;but then until that right time comes,that swift feeling of churning ,crushing and crashing is the most painful!!" It's the times way of saying,"Get used to it!!!"..Getting used to it-that's the right thing to do and hoping time will heal me with its swift touch sooner than later!!!

Making the best out of the worst!

Life is so unfair at times and all the while when one's wailing,complaining and whining;there are others who make the best out of that very situation they are in, not that their hearts doesn't pain, not that they don't realize they have lost everything that they have loved dearly,not that they aren't frail or weak or hurting-they are all but strong, they are all but happy, they are all but complete but then they simply choose not to let life eat them up,not to let agony turn to abhorrence, not to let separation swallow traces of what's left behind and that's how these brave souls learn to tighten their grip to their lives once again. This realization is so beautiful, I cried a little, I ached a little and I salute these brave souls!

Life as we know it- Are we lost in this conundrum?

Harder the work, whether greater the yield or not;definitely greater the satisfaction. And greater the satisfaction, harder the effort you put in and this is how the vicious circle of life continues-working hard to multiply satisfaction with the hope that it will yield something bigger and better, after all as humans we eye on begetting perfection and this is how we shall continue to exist !!! So now the real question is are we losing grip to our own lives just because we are striving to live our lives the way what we typically know of or should we chose to live an atypical life-which might be so skewed that we might be called a hippie,weirdo, moronic or even an alien,but then we wouldn't have to chase for neither satisfaction nor perfection!! I wish there was a simple answer to this.

Extremism is in no way acceptable

I am not against any race, religion,ethnicity,gender, status but one of my biggest pet peeves is the concept of extremism..I can never understand,let alone process why are extremists so indulgent on creating ruckus over minor things?-from breathing, to yawning to living there is an extreme thought process involved for everything.There is a propaganda that extremists want the entire world to follow in the name of Universal brotherhood-And mind that,I say Extremist and I don't say Christian or jews or muslims or hindus because religion is not the problem,Extremism is! -The skewed thought processes of Extremists could emerge from any religion,any background,any culture and they exist in insurmountable numbers in every part of the world. I don't understand why a woman is beheaded for bearing a child before marriage,or considered the protagonist when she is actually the victim of rape,or the citizens having to go through chemical weapon attack,or mass shooting/bombing around the globe and every other happenstances of that nature???? -And while witnessing these horrendous events is one thing; I strongly believe it has nothing to do with one's religion /race/ethnicity whatsoever- It is not because one was Muslim or black or white or interracial-the real problem is yet again Extremism.Why isn't there a liberal approach ? why is it so hard to accept somebody else's existence? Why is it so important to control somebody else's lives?-So many questions yet answers to none.Hmmm, Still seeking an answer.On that note ,be liberal,be accepting of others and Extremists STOP ,take a hike!

On parents and acceptance

There lies a safe heaven,on your parents feet.There lies immense love that will never fade.There lies countless blessings that will never dissuade. There lies prayers that will always remain.So why then,you let their heart ache? So why then you let their eyes drench ? So why then you let their hopes wither? So why then you despise their old existence? So why then you turn blind eye to their agony? So why then you don't hold their hands no more? And now that you can't look into the same direction as them,why don't you try at least to match their gaze because if they were to ignore while you were wailing,if they were not there to hold your hands when you were failing,if they were not there to teach you right from the wrong,if they were not there to caress you when you were frail,if only if they were not there to pamper you,feed you,groom you and mould you into the you,you are today; may be the you that you are today wouldn't be the you that you take pride in. Something to ponder about!!! And on that note,accept your parents despite the differences since they sure as hell accepted you !!! No riches in the world can replace them- Irreplaceable they are!

Life lessons and Relationships

I would say relationships are two way street that meet at a junction but on the way you could encounter a multilane highway or a Dead end;however the observations,the calculations, the happenings and the lessons learnt along the way is all that matters. For instance,on the way you will learn about elevation,quality,surrounding of the road you are traveling through; You will learn about tipsy turvy,crooked,rigged,or well paved streets; You will learn whether its misty,foggy,sunny chilly or rainy outside and plan your travel accordingly;You will learn about the need of yielding for someone else or stopping all together to avoid a clash; You might encounter breathtakingly beautiful scenic view or painstakingly dilapidated sight along the road ; You might be making way through smooth road, and the same road might change midway into a bumpy,graveled road . And not just the road, but along the way you will learn about the journey itself: to jostle through the traffic, give someone else right of way, follow rules to avoid the consequences, to slow down,to gear up, to halt midway. And like I stated earlier what matters is getting on the bandwagon,strapping your seat belts and heading ahead along the road with caution. If you meet multilane highway,good for you but on the way if you meet dead end...Lift your chin up ,take a deep breath and realize there is a reverse gear to take you back!That is the mantra of life and beauty of relationships.You won't learn until you get out there- And after that its for you to choose to stop or to move on or to to choose a new vehicle all together since your vehicle has mileage over 200 K and is in a bad shape. The choice is yours and next time you get on your new ride,you know all the shortcuts to avoid the bad consequences along the road,you know why? Because you once dared to fight your inhibition and get on the damn car and get along with whatever comes your way...So be happy that what could have been the fatal accident,was actually a life lesson. And new journey, new adventure awaits...:) On that note, Relationships are beautiful but when both ends meet ,there should be no guilt, no remorse, no pain and no hurt

Mother

Mother's are irreplaceable!!! She is your arch-nemesis and a lot of times you are irked and exclaim in fury "Oh generation gap, Quit being fussy!!"(at least I do that majority of times) yet at the end of the day she is your confidant who always supports you unconditionally; she's your protector who plunges into the darkness of uncertainty to make sure certainty of brightness resides on your side; she is your friend who will make silly comments and laugh boisterously; she is your teacher, who teaches you that Patience and Perseverance never goes unnoticed and kindness and altruism never goes waste; she's the one who makes you believe that towards the end of the dark, dreary dungeon there is going to be a glimpse of light; she is the one who makes you feel that there is no one else in the world as precious and as beautiful as you are; she will fight with the world with her bare hands if she has to, to defend your honor; she will kiss all your pain away;she will love you without any condition,no matter how much you hurt/ mistreat her; she still sees the goodness in you even if the entire world is poking fingers at you as if you are the culprit; she will never stop loving you even for a tad bit; she is the home that raises you, she is the warmth that moulds you, she is the artist that carves you, she is the teacher that shapes you, and she is the heaven that embraces you-She is divine and God created her to be the epitome of love, kindness,blessings, hard work, dedication and moreover"SHE IS THE FIRST PERSON YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH" and will do so for rest of your lives. Thank you for loving us and making our lives worthwhile just because you reside in it..