Life lessons and Relationships

I would say relationships are two way street that meet at a junction but on the way you could encounter a multilane highway or a Dead end;however the observations,the calculations, the happenings and the lessons learnt along the way is all that matters. For instance,on the way you will learn about elevation,quality,surrounding of the road you are traveling through; You will learn about tipsy turvy,crooked,rigged,or well paved streets; You will learn whether its misty,foggy,sunny chilly or rainy outside and plan your travel accordingly;You will learn about the need of yielding for someone else or stopping all together to avoid a clash; You might encounter breathtakingly beautiful scenic view or painstakingly dilapidated sight along the road ; You might be making way through smooth road, and the same road might change midway into a bumpy,graveled road . And not just the road, but along the way you will learn about the journey itself: to jostle through the traffic, give someone else right of way, follow rules to avoid the consequences, to slow down,to gear up, to halt midway. And like I stated earlier what matters is getting on the bandwagon,strapping your seat belts and heading ahead along the road with caution. If you meet multilane highway,good for you but on the way if you meet dead end...Lift your chin up ,take a deep breath and realize there is a reverse gear to take you back!That is the mantra of life and beauty of relationships.You won't learn until you get out there- And after that its for you to choose to stop or to move on or to to choose a new vehicle all together since your vehicle has mileage over 200 K and is in a bad shape. The choice is yours and next time you get on your new ride,you know all the shortcuts to avoid the bad consequences along the road,you know why? Because you once dared to fight your inhibition and get on the damn car and get along with whatever comes your way...So be happy that what could have been the fatal accident,was actually a life lesson. And new journey, new adventure awaits...:) On that note, Relationships are beautiful but when both ends meet ,there should be no guilt, no remorse, no pain and no hurt